Self Sabotaging

This morning I was inspired to write - to write something specifically for those of you who might not be feeling they are exactly where they wish to be or where they 'think' they should be. Does this sound like you? If so, read on....

Self Sabotaging

It's true that we can be our own worst enemy when it comes to creating the life we crave. We honestly get in our own way so often and we do it without even realising we are most of the time. You might be wondering what I am talking about, however if you are someone who keeps banging their head against a brick wall, wondering why things aren't working out in your favour then you probably have an inkling that you could be sabotaging your own happiness.

If you have been trying to manifest (insert said desire here) and it simply is not happening, it is time my friend to take a step back and really consider where in your life feels misaligned. If you have been following my content then you know by now that I am all about the energetics and how they affect every single aspect of our existence. We are energy, everything is energy and that being said, our energy affects others, just as the energy of others has an affect upon us. So then, if we are wishing to create a certain experience or bring something into our life and we have used all the known manifestation techniqes to no avail - (crystal grids, vision boards, visualisation etc etc), WE just might be the one preventing it. That can be a hard pill to swallow but its a reality check that we each need to be reminded of sometimes. Accepting that we might possibly be a part of the problem isn't easy to take on board for some people, but lets own it and move on.

I'm going to ask you to stop for a moment and ask yourself the big question....."Is what I am trying to manifest what I TRULY want?"

This is a key factor because if you are trying to manifest a job for example that you want because you feel it will impress your family and friends due to the prestige and high pay check that comes along with it, but it does not align with your soul's desire for you to use your energy for something that fulfills you and gives you a sense of joy and purpose then no matter how hard you try to make it happen, it simply wont happen OR it might, but will you be happy? Chances are, overtime you will become resentful toward the job, the people you were trying to impress and you will beat yourself up for allowing it to happen and for not being true to yourself.

One of the great things about energy work is that you learn to pick up on the signs and symbols through your spiritual senses or clair senses that let you know if you are on the right track or not, and when it might be time to step onto a new path and go in a different direction. It doesn't mean you failed at your attempts, it just means that there was a lesson in that experience for you and that listening more to your intuition to lead you, rather than your ego mind will benefit you in coming into alignment with the mission you came here to fulfill.

Another common reason our wishes do not manifest is through our thoughts and belief systems dictating how worthy we feel we are of receiving what we are attempting to bring into our world. If we have not yet done any healing on ourselves, allowed ourselves the opportunity to self reflect and work on our shadow then we might be implementing manifesting techniques 24/7, however our emotions, our mind, our body is saying 'NO, NO, NO', YOU AREN'T GOOD ENOUGH! If we do not love ourselves then no amount of time and energy spent on manifesting our dreams will ever be enough. Energy flows where we place our attention and what we focus on grows, whether it be positive or negative. If you want a thriving business but you don't feel you deserve the rewards of having a thriving business, it will be tough to get it off the ground. If your dream is to travel the world but you keep coming up with reasons not to go then again, it wont be easy. If you are wishing to draw your soul mate partner toward you but dont feel worthy of being loved then you may find yourself attracting partners that reinforce your unworthiness patterns. It is true that we must first love ourselves before we can have a deep loving connection with another.

Our mind is constantly coming up with narratives based on our past experiences, what our parents and teachers told us and what we have seen played over and over again on TV. Realising that we have all been part of a program that was designed to keep us down and in a state of amnesia is a major realisation that occurs as part of the awakening of our planet and a vital component in the healing of Mother Earth. If you are currently going through the Awakening process and need some support checkout my Online Courses. If you need some 1:1 support you can find that here.

Know that whatever your experience, it has shaped your reality, however, change is a guaranteed constant in the human experience so you CAN make changes that support you in approaching life through a new set of eyes, that is self guided and lived from the heart space. This is where your true power lies and it will never lead you in the wrong direction. When you start to appreciate yourself for who you truly are and let yourself off the hook for any past experiences you had that kept you spiralling through negative emotions of guilt and shame and start to forgive, then that's when the magic happens. Your life will take shape in new and exciting ways so it is so worth stepping onto the path of self healing and spiritual development.

If you are unsure how to begin self healing there are so many different modalities and techniques you can explore. Meditation was my gateway into other healing modalities and I still use Meditation daily. From Meditation I was drawn to help others in some way so I found Reiki and I became a Reiki Practitioner. Energy Healing is an amazing tool to have on hand and you have it for life once you are attuned. If this speaks to you then you can checkout my availability for Reiki Attunements. Go where you are led and you will be acting upon your intuition rather than your mind. Your soul is leading you where you need to be but listening is the key. To listen more clearly, meditate or do breathwork. Get creative and immerse yourself in the present moment. There are so many treasures to be found when you clear the clutter of your mind, your space and simply breathe and give back to yourself. Through these practices you will come into a space of gratitude and self love and THAT is the energy for manifesting your best life yet!!

Until I learned about intuition, meditation, healing and channeling I was truly in the dark about spirituality and the benefits that we can derive from implementing regular practices into our lives. I can say from personal experience that just one simple practice daily can create a huge shift in your life and it doesn't need to take much time or effort on your part. It will however create a ripple effect that helps not only you but the world and if we each did just one small thing consistently, just imagine how this could reshape the world we are living in right now into much higher levels of love and peace. This is what we each want on a soul level and it is the reason we are each here at this time. We are here to support humanity to awaken, to shine and to overcome adversity, so take the time, follow your heart and know you ARE worthy of love and all the things that you aspire to be.

Keep going!

Sending love and Blessings

Narelle X

Narelle Monteleone is a Spiritual Mentor, Reiki Master, Channel and Healer supporting Lightworkers and Starseeds through Activations, Teachings, Retreats and Courses. Narelle has a Diploma in Holistic Counselling.

Psychic Abilities

Psychic Abilities

Psychic abilities are something that everyone has whether we acknowledge them or not.

We are all psychic, though some of us are using our abilities consciously and some are not. If you decide you are keen to learn about how to access your psychic abilities then there are many avenues you can venture into, and through this article I hope to guide you to where you will find out more about your unique abilities without any fear mongering information that one can stumble across as we venture online to find out more on this subject.

I am speaking 100% from personal experience here as someone who has been through what is known as a Spiritual Awakening, and consequently as a Spiritual Teacher, Healer and Channel have been learning, studying and experiencing what it is like to navigate the awakening process for myself and my clients for many years now.

Firstly, I don't feel the process really ever ends, but rather. changes and shifts along the way. We climb one mountain, only to realise there are many more waiting for us, and this is how we grow, learn and gain wisdom.

The first thing to acknowledge is that if you feel drawn to learn about psychic development, there is a reason; spirit is knocking on the door to remind you that you are here for a reason, and that it's time to get moving toward realising that you are more than your physical self. You might be going through a difficult phase or have recently lost a loved one or seeking direction. At some point we begin to question our place in the world and begin the journey of discovering our true purpose. Your purpose might be what propels you into something that changes the world, or you may simply be a light that helps one person. Whatever your purpose, it is valuable - YOU are valuable! You are so much more than you could imagine, outside of your current 3D reality. You are human, YES, but you are also multifaceted, filled with unlimited potential. You can have anything that you want if you believe that to be true, because you see, what you believe to be true for you and the world, is what you will experience as true for you in your world.

We are each a part of a greater whole having an experience that we are creating moment by moment. This is why our thoughts are so important and learning to work with energy is a valuable tool in manouvering through life. When we understand energy, we understand that we can and do fluctuate in our energetic vibration, and can easily raise our vibration in an instant in order to resonate with higher level experiences.

So, back to Psychic Abilities - As I mentioned, if you are feeling excited, curious or pulled in the direction of wanting to activate your psychic senses, of which there are many, then that is a sign and listening to the signs you receive are the way you move forward on your spiritual journey. Trust is a key factor! Activating your Psychic Abilities is not just about opening your 3rd Eye; in fact I don't recommend you jump straight into that until you have worked on your lower Chakras and started to do some healing. We all have healing to do, even if we have convinced ourselves that we are perfectly fine. If you think about where you are now on your journey, then go back to your birth into this world, there will have been something that has happened to cause you some discomfort at the very least. Most of us have experienced the loss of a loved one, a relationship break up, maybe an illness or are a child of divorced parents. Whatever the scenario, the energy of our experiences stay with us. Beliefs and patterns that have carried over from those experiences, from our environment, our peers, parents and relatives, teachers and so on become a part of who we are and how we move through life. As such, if we were to jump straight in and open our third eye, we may be shown our trauma in some way; any lack of self worth or fear of any kind. I don't recommend that! There is darkness to bring to light gently and safely before then. Start slow and work on yourself often.

This is a life long journey so there is no rush, although I completely understand how exciting it can be to learn about the myriad of topics connected with a spiritual path and being pulled in a whole lot of different directions. There is time, so take it slow and integrate the teachings at your own pace. Learning about the Chakra System will serve you well and a great place to start. You will benefit from working on your Root Chakra in order to ground yourself here into the Earth in this reality while you start to traverse the higher realms. Don't worry! This doesn't mean you won't be able to access higher levels of consciousness, but what it does mean is that the guidance you receive will be accessed in a way that will be grounded and useful. If you stay up in the quantum too long, you may be doing yourself a dis-service, and not really living your human existence which is what you are here for at this time.

HOW TO ACTIVATE YOUR PSYCHIC ABILITIES

To activate your psychic abilities, I recommend

• Meditation

• Yoga

• Breath Work

• Reiki

• Spending time in nature

• Or something else entirely that you feel called to do that disconnects you from the noise of the everyday.

I was very drawn to crystals and oracle cards, which are great tools to start working with to work your psychic muscle and gain access to Spirit Guides and learn about energy.

Maybe your modality of choice is Astroglogy or Numerology or even Light Language? It is my belief that our Spirit Guides are facets of who we are as we play out parallel lives simultaneously, so we may be connecting with out future selves, past selves, parallel selves as our psychic senses come online.

Remember that nothing is really ever truly outside of us, and Spirit Guides are no exception. We have our own universe within us. This is of course my belief system and it is important to trust what feels true for you. I also believe that there are no limits as to what and who our guides can be, although in my experience I have never had passed loved ones as actual spirit guides, though I have heard people say they have them.

Your intuition is natural and everyone is intuitive. We are sentient beings who feel, see, hear, smell and 'just know' things. Our natural psychic abilities havent been encouraged through our school systems and if anything, have been viewed as something 'woo' or fake, so, if we are to step into awakening our intuitive selves more, then we need to let that go, releasing the need to worry about what anyone else thinks of us. You might even feel like you are going a bit crazy sometimes as you move through the process of accessing your psychic abilities, but that is mostly because it's something that is new and very different to what we are accustomed to. We have been taught to trust the facts, trust the science, do what your teachers tell you to do, listen to the Government because they know best and care about us, but actually, err no, they don’t!

We need to listen to ourselves and trust the nudges of our soul to guide us to where we are are to go in order to reach our highest potential, both as an individual and as humanity collectively.

If you are someone who has always followed the crowd then this will be a new direction for you and I know you can do it. It doesn't mean you don't have friends to support you, or family members as part of your journey, but it means that you have all the answers and don't need to be told what to do from here on out. Listen to other perspectives, read books, take classes and know that working with teachers, coaches and mentors holds so much value, however, remember to trust what feels true for you and don't get lost in the ideology of another person. No one is better than you or above you. There is no heirachy and no one is more advanced than anyone else. We are each evolving in our own way in our own time. Release your attachment to the energy of lack because you are good enough and you can have everything that you desire whether that be spiritual knowledge or an abundance of wealth. Nothing is out of reach! You are worthy.

• To start your journey of activating your psychic abilities I would recommend buying yourself a journal that is brand new and for the purpose of recording your experiences.

• Next! Write down your reason for wanting to activate your psychic abilities. eg. Do you feel it will help you in your own life in making decisions, to help others or do you want to reach your full potential? There is no wrong answer here, but your reason is important. Activating your Psychic abilities will help you in your life and will certainly help others if you decide to work with clients at some point and to be of service to humanity. It should never be to impress anyone, to show off, as this is very ego based. You have nothing to prove to anyone and in fact it may hinder your abilities if that is the path you choose to take. Psychic abilties, just like healing abilities are for the greater good and to empower each of us to awaken what might be laying dormant within us. We have used our intuitive gifts many times before in other lifetimes so once awakened you will know what feels most natural and where you feel most drawn.

• Next! Make a space in your home, even if it is just a corner in a room where you can sit and meditate, journal, breathe, create and this is your special place that is designated just for you to work on your spiritual practices.

Start slow, working your way from your root chakra to your crown, using guided chakra meditations or tuning into each chakra as you meditate, spinning and awakening them so that you come into balance in Mind, Body & Spirit. Spend time in nature and connect with the plants, flowers, ocean, rivers, creeks, lakes, trees and animals. Insects are messengers bringing you signs and confirmation from your guides, angels and star family.

Know you are never alone on this spiralling journey of awakening to all that you are and if you would like to learn more about activating your psychic abilities checkout my Awaken your Intuition Course.

Keep going, keep grounding and live life moment by moment. This is an ever evolving life long journey of remembrance of your true self, of healing the past and becoming the highest version of who you came here to to be.

Narelle X

Narelle Monteleone is a Spiritual Mentor, Holistic Counsellor, Channel and Reiki Teacher supporting those on the journey of awakening and beyond. Narelle offers Sessions, Workshops, Courses and Activated Products for your ascension.

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Andromedan Transmission

Andromedan Transmission

We have upon us a great time of change in which all are required to do their part to support Earth's movement into higher vibratory resonance. We are finding that many have chosen to become dormant in their role as the waiting game has become too much. We remind you all that there is no returning to the sleep state once awakened and that you chose to be a part of this process in which Earth will rise once more; out of distortion, above all that would relish in her demise.

It is the responsibility of the seeders here to re-establish their connection to their soul and star families, in order for the required recalibration to be successful. This has been a task like no other, there is no denying that, and in yoru Earthly time, it feels long and tiring. Many of you feel worn out both physically and emotionally, but there is no turning away from this mission.

Love is the defining factor in this war and that requires love for self first and foremost and love for all beings; both on your planet and within the many star systems and galaxies. Release the fear and step back into alignment through accessing your god given abilities, for they are yours, to be used for a specific reason. Your gifts free yourselves and the planet Gaia from control, as your gifts transcend time and space, so you can never be held captive by your Governments and forces that would have you believe so.

Activate, integrate and step up once more, for now is the time you are required to do the work that you volunteered for. We are with you in this batter, so you are not alone. Be the courageous leader that you are and do not hide your truth, for this is what escalates this process that your Earth so desperately needs.

Andromedan Light Council

Narelle Monteleone is a Spiritual Mentor, Holistic Counsellor, Channel and Reiki Teacher based in Sydney, Australia offering Sessions, Workshops, Courses and Activated Products for your ascension.

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